Building a life of integrity, a life of joy, a life that matters… by choosing self.
Life is a gift.
I want you to have the best life you can possibly have. And I believe that the way for that to happen is for you to be in charge of your life.
Making choices to please others is the default for many of us. But, ultimately, choosing for ourselves what we believe is best for ourself is the only way to live an authentic life. Choosing to live by your own integrity and in your own power is the path to happiness. Owning your life as your own is powerful. Why make choices to please others? They have a life to live, let them control their own life.
Own your life. Don’t lay blame. Don’t blame yourself, don’t blame others. Laying any blame at all causes us to live in the past, retracing events of the past, denying our responsibility for the present. Accepting the present and making choices that you believe will benefit your future (and the future of those you are intimately connected to) will empower you to own your life. Live in the present without looking back, with an eye to the future.
I hope you find some good things here. Some tools to help you become more and more empowered, engaged and in love with your life!
Have you ever been disappointed in a Tarot General Reading? I bet the answer is ‘yes.’ I know I have. If you click “search” on the Google homepage without entering anything in the search box, what do you get? You don’t get anything. The page stays static, you don’t learn anything, you don’t get any… Read More »General Reading: 3 things that happen when you read Tarot without a Question.
As a child, church was a way to connect to my soul, through the weekly guided prayer sessions. I mostly tuned out during the dogma, and did an excellent job at memorizing the cracks in the ceiling.
Practical Daily Tarot Draws If you’re anything like me, daily Tarot readings starts to feel redundant, especially if you don’t have any burning questions. There’s only so much navel gazing a person can do! So, to combat this, I’ve begun to use a series of practical spreads that can be used in rotation on a… Read More »Daily Tarot Draws #1
If you’re looking to dig into a situation and see the big picture, here’s a big tarot spread to help you. I love reading Tarot for problem solving, and this spread is a juicy one. It examines the big 3 and the other big 3. Past- Present-Future and Mind-Body-Spirit. This spread doesn’t have to answer… Read More »Chart Your Path Tarot Spread
I like to hang out with like- minded people. Finding Tarot enthusiasts to chill with in person on the daily is a little tricky. I have a local group that gathers bi-monthly but I need that itch scratched more often than that! My go-to online sources of Tarot discussion and community are YouTube, Facebook and… Read More »Online Tarot Communities
This site has been developing, it began a long time ago as a place to blog about journaling and journal types. When I discovered Tarot, this site made a pivot to learning how to learn Tarot. There are plenty of wonderful and exhaustive resources for this online, so I just dropped some ideas and thoughts that I developed as I was learning.
As I entered my 50’s life started to pivot for me, and I stepped away from regular publishing. I dug deep into the new me, this new evolution of my spirit.
I have begun to embrace my new role in life, beyond motherhood. Some might say Crone, other would say Sage. Regardless of the title, I know that it is a time to give back. A time to help others who need support along their journey.
When the student is ready, the teacher will appear.
I have had many teachers in my life and I hope to have many more. I hope you find some guidance and wisdom in the pages here, and that you come to know how important you are in the world. Without you, the world would be a very different place. Without you, you would not exist. You are a miracle, you matter a lot, you are important. I know this 100%. Take just a moment and feel the love that I send to you. You deserve it!